Thursday, November 6, 2008

In Regards to Proposition 8

Much has been said about the elections over the past weeks (Shoot, over the past two years) so please pardon me as I drag this out a little longer.

Many people have heard about the monetary contributions made by my church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to support proposition eight in California. "Prop" 8 as it has been endearingly coined (what, it's too hard to say proposition?) was an effort to define marriage as between a man and a woman, effectively banning gay marriage (for the time being at least).

Opponents to Proposition Eight have criticized the level of involvement that has been taken by the LDS church and its members. While I can understand the opposition's frustration, I also know that the LDS church has every right to get involved. However, the whole thing has unfortunately turned into a situation where one side hates the other side and we are no longer fighting to protect marriage, we are instead tearing each other down. One side says the other is bigoted, the other responds with accusations of destruction of all that is good. Maybe things have gotten a little extreme? Maybe we have lost focus, and perhaps we, as a church, have lost our Christlike attitude.

Here is an excerpt from a press release from my church, given this morning.



"... We hope that now and in the future all parties involved in this issue will be well informed and act in a spirit of mutual respect and civility toward those with a different position. No one on any side of the question should be vilified, intimidated, harassed or subject to erroneous information.

It is important to understand that this issue for the Church has always been about the sacred and divine institution of marriage — a union between a man and a woman.

Allegations of bigotry or persecution made against the Church were and are simply wrong. The Church’s opposition to same-sex marriage neither constitutes nor condones any kind of hostility toward gays and lesbians. Even more, the Church does not object to rights for same-sex couples regarding hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment rights, or probate rights, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of churches.

Before it accepted the invitation to join broad-based coalitions for the amendments, the Church knew that some of its members would choose not to support its position. Voting choices by Latter-day Saints, like all other people, are influenced by their own unique experiences and circumstances. As we move forward from the election, Church members need to be understanding and accepting of each other and work together for a better society."

(All emphasis added)

For full text of the press release, please CLICK HERE.

5 comments:

Chris, Deb and the Ava Jayne said...

I cannot agree more with this post--thank you.

Anonymous said...

How insightful. I love that statement by the church I hadn't seen it. Thanks for posting it. I needed to see it.
ps I love the bleh, what do you think of blerg?-K.

J. Aaron Farr said...

Here's the issue though:

Opposition of marriage for gays is a form of hostility towards them. It's like opposing marriage between people of different religions or races (which the LDS church did oppose in the past).

If the church does "not object to rights for same-sex couples," then why object against marriage or civil unions? I am increasingly of the opinion that the state and federal government should only recognize civil unions and let the term "marriage" be relegated to religious organizations only.

Anonymous said...

I love this statement from the Church. I wish more would understand it. I also would like to mention that the Church has not made comments on Civil Unions only marriage.

Jenny Zepp said...

Thank you for your comments, Amanda. I don't see the difference between civil unions and marriages. It seems that the same goal is in mind. And although the church uses pretty words, I think that they have made themselves out to be intolerant of others. Very sad, indeed.

I hope that Prop. 8 gets overturned. It seems that America has taken one step forward with Barak Obama and two steps back with Prop. 8.